[Sellize]

kkkk

[Sublime]

You know why he does that sort of thing? Better know the reason behind these things.

((And you believe these forums are suitable for these kind of questions?))

[seanny]

I would not piss off your parents as it is disrespectful to do so. Your dad doesn't want family feuds to escalate so that is why he does not want anyone to talk to them.

[dugi]

That'd be a really mature thing to do..

[linuxthefish]

murder

[iZN]

^ lol'd.

I will never do that, I respect my parents.

[DanishHaq]

The way to annoy him? Just don't. If you have problems, wait till he's calmed down and try and talk to him respectfully as a family, possibly over Skype and try and resolve the matter. Or just go on Jeremy Kyle / Jerry Springer.

[Danny]

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Originally Posted by seanny I would not piss off your parents as it is disrespectful to do so. Your dad doesn't want family feuds to escalate so that is why he does not want anyone to talk to them.

So you have to take everything what adults say and do for granted? Adults are in some occasions even more stupid than we are. If this does occur, there's nothing wrong by telling them they're wrong. I don't know how you're raised, but that seems reasonable behaviour to me, not disrespectful.

@OP: Sure it's a nice feeling to watch him suffer. I know that and I have often done some things myself. (hiding things on purpose for example) However, while it gives some satisfaction this is not a long-term solution. Talk to him, or if direct talk doesn't work, write him a letter/email. For some strange reason written text has more effect on people, I guess it gives the subjected person more time to reflect their own behaviour.

If that doesn't work, consider living with your mom if that's possible, or contact a social worker in case your mom and dad have shared custody. In that case, he isn't allowed to forbid you to contact your mom. (that's some article of our law) But if you're going down this road, first think of the consequences. Your dad will probably lose custody or even get punished. Social workers can be a real pain in the ass, when you can solve it without them, I strongly recommend you to do so.

EDIT: oh and like Sublime said, find out what his arguments are to do this. In this way you are able to produce some argument against his statements when the time comes.

[KingHual]

wow your life is horrible you should run away and never go back

[Mauzen]

This is called a "phone box". It is a public phone that anyone can use anytime. Last century, this was the most famous way to do mobile phone calls. Find one and you wont have any problems with someone taking your phone, unless he decides to wreck all local boxes, and this would teach him a juridical lesson.

Teaching him "your lessons" will just mess it up and is probably the best way to get in some foster home.