[Scenario]

I prefer sending small queries if I can. A lot of times, people will save EVERYTHING in their player enum and honestly, the majority of that doesn't ever need to be saved. Most of it like if a player is banned, in admin jail, muted, their admin level, etc. should be saved when they are edited/changed and not when the player logs off.

So, you shouldn't have to worry about large queries vs. small queries as most of your queries should be small.

By the way, if you thread your queries, you shouldn't need to worry.