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Originally Posted by Duck Not true. We like any type of guy, it just depends on the girl's personality.

Generally not being confident will lead you to a retardation of the relationship development. Be it, and you will never be able to ask her out to dinner, to date, or in some cases approach. I have friends who are generally fine with males, but when they confront a girl they act like they have never met an human in life. That, in my experience, is turning off unless the girl's personality is alike the dude.

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My advice to the original poster is to be outgoing. She's an human like you, me and everyone else. As soon you start to know her, you will gain more trust, and even if she broke up an hour ago she will like you if you are the kind of person she would like to go out with.