[Babul]

hm.. each server got its goals. i dont think that you can just "relax". if you want to play any game and do nothing, then SAMP is the wrong way to go. if you join any RP server, you will have like 400 commands for doing nothing, but care for some stats - finding an english sever can be easy, just use the hosted tab, most of them support english language. if you dare to scan the whole internet list, and sort for players (descending?). grab a piece of paper, write down 10-20 IPs, and later add them all to your favorite list. then you can join the freshly added servers, with no need to worry about losing the (important servers) list.
oh, better yet: http://monitor.sacnr.com/
you cant miss the good severs anymore i guess? ^^