You'll have to create your own server, and then you'll give her the IP. Probably looking like 198.168, etc. And you'll be able to play both together. ( Feel free 2 give reputation, would appreciate i...

You can make your own, through your internet.

Probably your graphic card is kinda destroyed, or youre missing something from ur gta folder, even tho u re-installed.

There might be something missing from your GTA SAN ANDREAS folder, even though you re-installed GTA SAN ANDREAS. (Or some files that got messed up, and sometimes when you re-install it stays the same,...

Before judging Mevi, quit saying bullshit, if you read my post carefully, you would notice I said "Remove the whole GTASANANDREAS folder" which sometimes fixes the bugs So quit being so rude.

Probably something wrong with GTA san Andreas... - Uninstall GTA. - Remove WHOLE GTASANANDREAS folder. - Re-install GTA san andreas. Hopefully I helped.

Have you installed Sound Mods?